The trench warfare of internet familiarity

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ท๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฏ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฎ ๐˜‡๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ผ-๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜ƒ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†.

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This exercise asks that you imagine the internet not as infrastructure but as people, as a human system, not as a technological system. Thanks to scientific endeavour, the field of psychology is advancing very rapidly. Never before have we possessed such a complete understanding of human behaviours, emotions and mental health.

60% to 70% of adults globally have experienced at least one traumatic event or Adverse Childhood Experience before the age of 18.

This is the basis of our argument; a global societal problem that we need to first acknowledge and then tackle when appraising how the internet should evolve. A core facet of psychology and attachment theory is that people are drawn to the safety of the familiar, even when that familiarity is not safe โ€“ their hardโ€‘coded inner child.

If an infant's primary caregivers could not give adequate care or it involved mental or physical violence, the child will carry that complex through their life, usually unwittingly โ€“ potentially 5.5 billion people. Let that sink in. Not forgetting the 450 million people that go on to develop clinical PTSD (WHO).

Less than 7% of people worldwide receive effective treatment for mental health or substance abuse disorders. Thatโ€™s a gap of 5 billion people.

It is very difficult to unpick trauma with a selfโ€‘help book, especially when most people don't know what they carry subconsciously, nor the selfโ€‘harm it invokes.

This is why I said that the vast majority of people on this Earth are navigating the internet with a zeroโ€‘day vulnerability. Itโ€™s not the internet reflecting peopleโ€™s conscious choices, itโ€™s the internet exploiting the majorityโ€™s unconscious suffering, by creating the familiarity of more suffering, interspersed with the occasional buzz of validation.

This is also why, when you hear a tech billionaire advocating for freedom of speech, you can call BS.

It's not about rights, it's about sending the majority of people โ€œover the topโ€ into a blaze of precise algorithmic machineโ€‘gun fire, because that's what wins the profits.

It's not a reason for overzealous regulation either, because governments can't help but shoot themselves and us in the feet with poorly conceived rules that mangle dutyโ€‘ofโ€‘care to citizens.

Education systems are being stretched to breaking point and in desperate need of overhaul. Looking at the facts and the psychological gap we describe, parents must demand that their children deserve structured access to foundational psychological syllabus. Regenerating maths, language, science and humanities as the basis of civilised human education. Education and training for selfโ€‘reliance is essential, more so than any kind of AI skills. Turning over their phones wonโ€™t be sufficient. A war on phones will be as effective as the war on drugs.

This is why corporations like Meta are unforgivably transgressive in my estimation โ€“ it's the same โ€œguns don't kill people...โ€ Americanism, but over the past twenty years it has been allowed to dominate the worldwide web, because awareness and wisdom always lags opportunism and enterprise.

๐—–๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ, ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ a ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต.

(PS The Fourth Way of Futurism is our tiny contribution to that goal)

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