The trench warfare of internet familiarity
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ท๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐๐ต ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐๐ฒ๐ฏ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ฎ ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ผ-๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐๐น๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐๐.
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This exercise asks that you imagine the internet not as infrastructure but as people, as a human system, not as a technological system. Thanks to scientific endeavour, the field of psychology is advancing very rapidly. Never before have we possessed such a complete understanding of human behaviours, emotions and mental health.
60% to 70% of adults globally have experienced at least one traumatic event or Adverse Childhood Experience before the age of 18.
This is the basis of our argument; a global societal problem that we need to first acknowledge and then tackle when appraising how the internet should evolve. A core facet of psychology and attachment theory is that people are drawn to the safety of the familiar, even when that familiarity is not safe โ their hardโcoded inner child.
If an infant's primary caregivers could not give adequate care or it involved mental or physical violence, the child will carry that complex through their life, usually unwittingly โ potentially 5.5 billion people. Let that sink in. Not forgetting the 450 million people that go on to develop clinical PTSD (WHO).
Less than 7% of people worldwide receive effective treatment for mental health or substance abuse disorders. Thatโs a gap of 5 billion people.
It is very difficult to unpick trauma with a selfโhelp book, especially when most people don't know what they carry subconsciously, nor the selfโharm it invokes.
This is why I said that the vast majority of people on this Earth are navigating the internet with a zeroโday vulnerability. Itโs not the internet reflecting peopleโs conscious choices, itโs the internet exploiting the majorityโs unconscious suffering, by creating the familiarity of more suffering, interspersed with the occasional buzz of validation.
This is also why, when you hear a tech billionaire advocating for freedom of speech, you can call BS.
It's not about rights, it's about sending the majority of people โover the topโ into a blaze of precise algorithmic machineโgun fire, because that's what wins the profits.
It's not a reason for overzealous regulation either, because governments can't help but shoot themselves and us in the feet with poorly conceived rules that mangle dutyโofโcare to citizens.
Education systems are being stretched to breaking point and in desperate need of overhaul. Looking at the facts and the psychological gap we describe, parents must demand that their children deserve structured access to foundational psychological syllabus. Regenerating maths, language, science and humanities as the basis of civilised human education. Education and training for selfโreliance is essential, more so than any kind of AI skills. Turning over their phones wonโt be sufficient. A war on phones will be as effective as the war on drugs.
This is why corporations like Meta are unforgivably transgressive in my estimation โ it's the same โguns don't kill people...โ Americanism, but over the past twenty years it has been allowed to dominate the worldwide web, because awareness and wisdom always lags opportunism and enterprise.
๐๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ ๐ณ๐น๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐ผ๐๐ป ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑ, ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐น๐ฒ๐๐ ๐น๐ถ๐ธ๐ฒ a ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐๐๐น๐ฒ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฒ๐น๐ฑ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐น๐ถ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐ฎ ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐ณ๐น๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ต.
(PS The Fourth Way of Futurism is our tiny contribution to that goal)
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